Oh Des! I used to think that admitting you were a red flag made you less of one.
That if I confessed early…
"Hey, I have issues! Haha! I'm super intense and slightly feral but, like, suuuuper self-aware about it!"
- that it would somehow neutralize the risk.
Spoiler: it doesn't. Yes it does not. Newsflash 90% of people are not self aware, we are the best at lying to ourselves. You sound like Taylor Tomlinson. Similar thoughts
Oh Des! I used to think that admitting you were a red flag made you less of one.
That if I confessed early…
"Hey, I have issues! Haha! I'm super intense and slightly feral but, like, suuuuper self-aware about it!"
- that it would somehow neutralize the risk.
Spoiler: it doesn't. Yes it does not. Newsflash 90% of people are not self aware, we are the best at lying to ourselves. You sound like Taylor Tomlinson. Similar thoughts
Yes. That's right. ;) I found the following interview helpful too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCtvAvZtJyE&list=WL&index=4
Your not a red flag at all. Your daring and caring. Different, proud, full, but not a warning sign. Your heart is in the right place. A good place.